{"id":55361,"date":"2026-06-26T08:08:32","date_gmt":"2026-06-26T08:08:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.godj.com\/news\/wimbledon-2026-how-not-to-be-a-tennis-parent\/"},"modified":"2026-06-26T08:08:32","modified_gmt":"2026-06-26T08:08:32","slug":"wimbledon-2026-how-not-to-be-a-tennis-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news.godj.com\/news\/wimbledon-2026-how-not-to-be-a-tennis-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Wimbledon 2026: How not to be a tennis parent"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\"><b class=\"ssrcss-1xjjfut-BoldText e5tfeyi3\">By the time Ellie-Rose Griffiths was nine, she had left school to train full-time. That was when tennis stopped being just a game and became her life.<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The former top-ranked junior player would go on to compete alongside some of the top names in British tennis including Katie Boulter, Emma Raducanu and Harriet Dart before stopping playing at 19 because she was burned out and not enjoying it any more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">When the 27-year-old looks back now, it is not just the tennis she remembers. It is the pressure around it, and in particular one group of people she believes could deal with it better.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Pushy parents are nothing new in a sport offering the potential of millions of pounds in prize money at the very top &#8211; at elite level there are well-documented incidents involving the dads of Jelena Dokic, Mary Pierce and Bernard Tomic to name a few.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">It all starts at junior level.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;You see parents shouting at children all the time in tennis,&#8221; Griffiths tells BBC Sport. &#8220;There&#8217;s a lack of understanding on how they should behave&#8230; on how they could help their child to blossom into the athlete that they should become.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">And it can get out of hand.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;We&#8217;ve had situations here before where unfortunately we&#8217;ve had to call the police because the parents&#8217; behaviour is getting that far out of control,&#8221; says Chris Johnson, head coach at Sutton Coldfield Tennis Club, where he has worked for 36 years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;They won&#8217;t listen, they think they can get away with anything, they don&#8217;t respect the referees, it can get a bit ugly.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Both are clear that behaviour like that does not happen in isolation and that it is the environment tennis creates that makes parents behave this way.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">So, why is that and what needs to change?<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Tennis can be intense for parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">There is transport to arrange, coaching to fund, and a complicated player pathway to navigate. In some cases there&#8217;s even private tutoring to arrange if their child has left mainstream school to focus on the sport.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;You do get on a bit of a hamster wheel&#8221;, says John from Derbyshire, whose 11-year-old son Harrison is a promising player. &#8220;It&#8217;s 12 months of the year, indoor courts and outdoor courts.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Children can start a form of tennis from the age of four on a modified court. The Lawn Tennis Association&#8217;s (LTA) performance pathway for the most promising juniors supports players from the age of seven on their journey to potentially becoming a Grand Slam champion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Competitions are grouped according to age and start aged eight and under.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">And the ratings and rankings you get from doing them are one way to get noticed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">So when does it start to get serious?<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;The minute they start playing their first competition,&#8221; according to Johnson.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Does he think that is right?<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Absolutely not.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;A lot of adults can&#8217;t cope with the pressures of playing an individual sport and then they&#8217;re expecting young children to be able to do so.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Steve Whelan, a coach working in St Albans with nearly three decades of experience, agrees that the system places too much emphasis on winning at a young age.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;It just creates this race to the bottom because parents are chasing ratings and rankings,&#8221; he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">He tells parents: &#8220;These are not tennis players. They are kids who play tennis and there&#8217;s a big difference.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The LTA says it undertook a &#8220;comprehensive review&#8221; of its rating and ranking system in 2018 &#8220;specifically to address the issue of putting too much pressure on children at too young an age.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Now players can&#8217;t be ranked nationally against their peers until they reach the under-11 age group, with younger children from eight and up organised into competition based on recent form &#8211; a rating.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">When it comes to parental behaviour the LTA says like any sport &#8220;there are occasions when a small minority of parents do not uphold the standards of behaviour expected&#8221;. The governing body will soon be launching a new initiative called Fair Play, to promote positive parent behaviour and support coaches.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/sport\/tennis\/articles\/cx23r1r55npo?at_medium=RSS&#038;at_campaign=rss\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By the time Ellie-Rose Griffiths was nine, she had left school to train full-time. That was when tennis stopped being just a game and became her life. 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