{"id":18923,"date":"2024-12-12T08:47:26","date_gmt":"2024-12-12T08:47:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.godj.com\/news\/i-just-want-somewhere-i-can-call-home-for-my-children\/"},"modified":"2024-12-12T08:47:26","modified_gmt":"2024-12-12T08:47:26","slug":"i-just-want-somewhere-i-can-call-home-for-my-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news.godj.com\/news\/i-just-want-somewhere-i-can-call-home-for-my-children\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I just want somewhere I can call home for my children&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 ejjhCR\">\n<div data-testid=\"hero-image\" class=\"sc-a34861b-1 jxzoZC\"><img decoding=\"async\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/cd34\/live\/aa5dcd90-b7e6-11ef-87de-2dded36088f6.jpg.webp\" alt=\"BBC Aaron pictured with a black beanie hat on and has a long ginger beard. He is wearing a black and red plaid shirt and thin gold rimmed circular framed glasses. \" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 efFcac\"\/><span class=\"sc-a34861b-2 fxQYxK\">BBC<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-8353772e-0 cvNhQw\">Aaron said pressure of being homeless has had a significant effect on his two children.<!-- --><\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Aaron Mullan is a single father-of-two and has been homeless since 2023.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;Very quickly life changed. I ended up a single father of two,&#8221; he told BBC News NI.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Mullan went to the Housing Executive and there was nowhere permanent for his family to go to. They were placed in a hotel in Antrim for five weeks. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;We&#8217;d travel an hour and a half each way to school. It took us so far away from any support and cost \u00a317 a day on public transport,&#8221; he said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Mullan added they had &#8220;very little facilities&#8221;, with no fridge and nowhere to cook. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;My youngest was still drinking from a bottle. I would buy fresh milk but have nowhere to store it.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">&#8216;Living in a blank space&#8217;<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Mullan and his children were eventually placed in temporary accommodation in Belfast in October 2023.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The family temporary accommodation service currently houses 27 adults and 42 children.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;I am very fortunate to be here,&#8221; he said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;Having my own cooking facilities felt like I&#8217;d won the lottery. I felt like I had a burst of life again.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">However, he said the pressure of being homeless has had a significant effect on his two children.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;My daughter in the mornings doesn&#8217;t want to get up out of bed,&#8221; he said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;She is feeling frustrated and she doesn&#8217;t have that healthy way to get her feelings out.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;It&#8217;s very confusing for them. You can&#8217;t set up her room for her. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;If she wants unicorns you can&#8217;t decorate. It feels like you&#8217;re living in a blank space. You still feel like a guest.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">&#8216;Pre-judgement and stigma&#8217;<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Mullan said he is worried about where he will be placed next. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;You don&#8217;t want to tell people you live in a hostel because there&#8217;s that pre judgement, that stigma,&#8221; he said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;There is an underlying shame because in a way you have failed to give the children somewhere secure to live.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">&#8216;A home is a sense of belonging&#8217;<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Mullan and his family are among 58,000 people who are homeless in Northern Ireland.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">With the sector under pressure \u2013 groups supporting those experiencing homelessness said their services need to be protected. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Bernadette Donaghy from Depaul said that having a home provided a sense of belonging and ownership.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;Families that come here to Depaul have been displaced from their families,&#8221; she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;They have been socially isolated. They don&#8217;t know the community, the don&#8217;t know where they are being placed and this is where Depaul comes in.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">&#8216;Homelessness was hard on my son&#8217;<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 jFCfG\">\n<div data-testid=\"image\" class=\"sc-a34861b-1 jxzoZC\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/bbcx\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 cOpVbP hide-when-no-script\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/334b\/live\/f48235f0-b7e6-11ef-be56-e797859eaafe.jpg.webp\" alt=\"Charlotte pictured with long blonde hair and is wearing black sweatshirt. She is standing by a wall with christmas decorations, coloured in stars by children. \" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 efFcac\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-8353772e-0 cvNhQw\">Charlotte said homelessness was really hard on her son<!-- --><\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Charlotte McKee and her son were helped by Depaul&#8217;s family services. They had to move out of their rented accommodation because of issues with mould.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;The landlord raised the rent and didn&#8217;t fix the issues. I couldn&#8217;t afford to rent somewhere else so I declared myself homeless,&#8221; she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms McKee and her son, who has additional needs, were given temporary accommodation at a family service run by Depaul, 18 miles away from her sons school. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;Being homeless definitely affected my son. The way it displays with my son is impulsive behaviour, erratic behaviour,&#8221; she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;Homelessness was really hard on him.&#8221; <!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms McKee travelled on public transport to and from her sons school to &#8220;keep some sort of continuity for him&#8221;. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The thought of having to one uproot his home life and then two his school life. It made me feel like I was unfit,&#8221; she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">She and her son recently moved into permanent accommodation.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;I can really notice a difference in his behaviour has improved and he&#8217;s much calmer,&#8221; she added.<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">&#8216;So devastating&#8217;<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Dr Ciara Fitzpatrick, an expert in socio-economic rights from Ulster University said inflation \u2013 the rate as which prices are rising \u2013 is among a &#8220;multitude&#8221; of reasons for an increase in the number of people who are homeless.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;We have a very squeezed private rented sector in Northern Ireland, we&#8217;ve got a long history where there&#8217;s been very little social housing built over the last two decades and so there&#8217;s literally a lack of homes,&#8221; she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Dr Fitzpatrick said that the &#8220;chaos&#8221; of living in temporary accommodation will &#8220;reflect onto [a] child&#8217;s life&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;There&#8217;s so much stress involved with potentially moving from place to place, not having a stable home and a stable environment.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">She added that a lack of stability is &#8220;so detrimental to mental health, and just to the child and parent&#8217;s life, it&#8217;s just so devastating&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c1elnwj9711o\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BBC Aaron said pressure of being homeless has had a significant effect on his two children. 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