{"id":17486,"date":"2024-11-20T16:31:39","date_gmt":"2024-11-20T16:31:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.godj.com\/news\/im-a-celebs-tulisa-says-shes-demisexual\/"},"modified":"2024-11-20T16:31:39","modified_gmt":"2024-11-20T16:31:39","slug":"im-a-celebs-tulisa-says-shes-demisexual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news.godj.com\/news\/im-a-celebs-tulisa-says-shes-demisexual\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m A Celeb&#8217;s Tulisa says she&#8217;s demisexual"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 ejjhCR\">\n<div data-testid=\"hero-image\" class=\"sc-a34861b-1 jxzoZC\"><img decoding=\"async\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/18be\/live\/bfdbd7f0-a721-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp\" alt=\"PA Media Tulisa Contostavlos pictured in the I'm A Celebrity Jungle. She wears the show's characteristic blue tank top and brown shirt and has a red and pink bandana in her hair. Behind her are lots of leaves and green foliage. \" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 efFcac\"\/><span class=\"sc-a34861b-2 fxQYxK\">PA Media<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-8353772e-0 cvNhQw\">Tulisa Contostavlos told camp mates she needs an emotional bond to feel sexually attracted to others <!-- --><\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">I&#8217;m A Celeb&#8217;s Tulisa Contostavlos has told her campmates she&#8217;s demisexual and has abstained from sex for more than three years.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The N-Dubz singer and former X-Factor judge explained she needs &#8220;to have a really close emotional bond with someone&#8221; before she finds them sexually attractive.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;For me, it&#8217;s all about the connection and the emotions that I feel with someone and then wanting to express them in that way,&#8221; she said, speaking on Tuesday&#8217;s episode of the ITV show. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Her description of herself as demisexual got a lot of viewers wondering what the term &#8220;demisexual&#8221; means.<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">It&#8217;s a word used to describe people who only develop a sexual attraction to others after forming a deep bond based on their personality, rather than feeling an instant connection. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">They may not fancy someone based on things like the way they look, smell or sound. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Tulisa told her campmates she&#8217;s &#8220;not an overly sexualised person&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;I need actual depth&#8230; I&#8217;m a slow, slow burner,&#8221; she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The 36-year-old from London said she had a profile on exclusive dating app Raya but the thought of dating &#8220;genuinely makes me feel physically sick&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 jFCfG\">\n<div data-testid=\"image\" class=\"sc-a34861b-1 jxzoZC\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/bbcx\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 cOpVbP hide-when-no-script\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/af37\/live\/d695ba20-a725-11ef-a060-c9e4846609a2.jpg.webp\" alt=\"Getty Images Dappy aka Costadinos Contostavlos, Tulisa aka Tulisa Contostavlos and Fazer aka Richard Rawson of N-Dubz pictured at an event in 2023. They are all dressed in neutral colours and pictured inside a room with painted white bricks. \" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 efFcac\"\/><span class=\"sc-a34861b-2 fxQYxK\">Getty Images<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-8353772e-0 cvNhQw\">Tulisa started in the music industry as one third of N-Dubz, alongside Dappy and Fazer<!-- --><\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Tulisa first shot to fame as part of N-Dubz in the 2000s before going solo with tracks including Young and Sight of You.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">After she entered the Australian jungle on Sunday, broadcaster Rylan Clark, who met Tulisa when she was a judge on X-Factor, <!-- --><a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/c98emly976do\" class=\"sc-c9299ecf-0 bZUiKB\" rel=\"noopener\">urged viewers not to comment on her appearance.<!-- --><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Speaking to podcaster and former Love Islander Olivia Atwood, Tulisa discussed having surgery and fillers after she was diagnosed with Bell&#8217;s palsy. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Bell&#8217;s palsy is a type of paralysis that temporarily affects the ability to control the facial muscles.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Tulisa told Olivia&#8217;s So Wrong It&#8217;s Right podcast the condition meant her &#8220;whole face dropped&#8221; so she started getting treatments to &#8220;balance out the symmetry&#8221; of her face. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">She&#8217;s in the Australian jungle alongside Coleen Rooney, content creator GK Barry and McFly&#8217;s Danny Jones as well as Radio 1 DJs Melvin Odoom and Dean McCullough.<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 gfTVSf\">\n<div data-testid=\"image\" class=\"sc-a34861b-1 jxzoZC\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/bbcx\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 cOpVbP hide-when-no-script\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/8366\/live\/74a706f0-15d7-11ef-9b12-1ba8f95c4917.jpg.webp\" alt=\"A footer logo for BBC Newsbeat. 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