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BBC<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\nDonald Trump enjoys a huge lead among men, while women tell pollsters they prefer Kamala Harris by a similarly large margin. The political gender gap reflects a decade of social upheaval and could help decide the US election.<\/b><\/p>\n
For the first woman of colour to secure a presidential nomination, and only the second woman to ever get this close, Kamala Harris goes to great lengths not to talk about her identity.<\/p>\n
\u201cListen, I am running because I believe that I am the best person to do this job at this moment for all Americans, regardless of race and gender,\u201d the vice-president said in a CNN interview last month.<\/p>\n
And yet, despite all her efforts to neutralise the subject, gender is shaping up to be the defining issue of this campaign.<\/p>\n
\u201cMadame President\u201d would be a new thing for America and it\u2019s reasonable to assume that while many voters love the idea, some find the novelty a little unnerving.<\/p>\n
The Harris campaign won\u2019t say it publicly, but one official acknowledged to me recently that they do believe there is \u201chidden sexism\u201d here that will deter some people from voting for any woman for president.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s 2024 and few people want to be the jerk who\u2019ll tell a pollster outright that they don\u2019t think a woman is fit for the Oval Office (though plenty are prepared to share misogynistic memes on social media). A Democratic strategist suggested there\u2019s a code, when voters tell pollsters that Harris is not \u201cready\u201d or doesn’t have the right \u201cpersonality\u201d or \u201cwhat it takes,\u201d what they really mean is that the problem is she\u2019s a woman.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n The Trump campaign says gender has nothing to do with it. \u201cKamala is weak, dishonest, and dangerously liberal, and that\u2019s why the American people will reject her on November 5th,\u201d it said this week. Although Bryan Lanza, a senior adviser to the campaign, texted me to say he\u2019s confident Trump will win because \u201cthe male gender gap gives us the edge\u201d.<\/p>\n Last time a woman ran for president, negative attitudes to her gender were clearly a factor. Eight years ago Hillary Clinton touted her being the first female nominee of a major party. The campaign\u2019s slogan \u201cI\u2019m with Her\u201d was a not very subtle reminder of her trailblazing role.<\/p>\n Pennsylvania Congresswoman Madeleine Dean remembers discussing Clinton\u2019s candidacy with voters. I spent an afternoon with Dean as she campaigned in her district this week and she told me that back in 2016 people would tell her, \u2018There\u2019s just something about her.\u2019<\/p>\n She says she soon realised that \u201cIt was about the \u2018her.\u2019 That was a thing. It was that [Hillary] was a woman.\u201d<\/p>\n While Dean thinks that sentiment is less prevalent today, she acknowledges that even now, \u201cthere are certain people who just think \u2018A powerful woman? No, a bridge too far.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n A lot has changed for women since 2016. The #MeToo movement in 2017 increased awareness of the subtle – and the not so subtle – discriminations women face at work. It changed the way we talk about women as professionals. MeToo may have made it easier for a candidate like Harris to secure the nomination.<\/p>\n But those big steps forward on the issues of diversity, equity, and inclusion were interpreted by some as a step back, especially for young men who felt they\u2019d been left behind. Or the changes were simply a step too far for conservative Americans who prefer more traditional gender roles.<\/p>\n So for some voters, this November\u2019s election has turned into a referendum on gender norms, and the social upheavals of recent years. This seems particularly true for the voters Kamala Harris has a tough time reaching: the young men who live in a world that is rapidly changing for, well, young men.<\/p>\n \u201cYoung men often feel like if they ask questions they are labeled as misogynist, homophobic or racist,\u201d says John Della Volpe, director of polling at the Harvard Institute of Politics.<\/p>\n \u201cFrustrated at not feeling understood, many then get sucked into a bro-culture of Donald Trump or Elon Musk. They look at who the Democrats prioritise – women, abortion rights, LGTBQ culture – and they ask \u2018what about us?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Della Volpe specialises in polling younger voters. He says the young men he is referring to are not part of some radical alt right, incel cabal. They are your sons, or they\u2019re your neighbour\u2019s sons. Indeed, he says, many support equality for women, but they also feel their own concerns go unheard.<\/p>\n Della Volpe ticks through a list of statistics showing ways young men today are worse off than their female counterparts: they are less likely to be in relationships, they are less likely to enrol in college than they used to, they have higher rates of suicide than their female peers.<\/p>\n Young American women meanwhile are steaming ahead. They are better educated than men, they work in service industries that are growing and increasingly they are earning more than men. In the period since Donald Trump was elected president, young women have also become significantly more liberal than young men, according to the Gallup polling group.<\/p>\n Which is all creating a stark gender split. Over the last seven years, the share of young men who say the US has gone \u201ctoo far\u201d promoting gender equality has more than doubled, according to the American Enterprise Institute.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n With his almost intuitive grasp of people\u2019s dissatisfactions, Trump has tapped into that male frustration, and in the final weeks of his campaign he has doubled down on masculinity. He reposted a warning on Truth Social claiming \u201cManhood is Under Attack.\u201d Recently he joked about a famous golfer\u2019s genitalia.<\/p>\n \u201cThis is a guy that was all man,\u201d said Trump, referring to golfer Arnold Palmer. \u201cWhen he took showers with the other pros, they came out of there \u2013 they said, \u2018Oh my God. That\u2019s unbelievable.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n Trump took the locker room talk out of the locker room – and his audience loved it. Riffing about penis size at a political rally, it was the ultimate pushback against stifling political correctness.<\/p>\n In their rallies, and on the airwaves, the Democrats\u2019 response to disaffected men seems to be a dose of tough love. Barack Obama scolded that some men \u201caren\u2019t feeling the idea of having a woman as president and you\u2019re coming up with other alternatives and other reasons for that.\u201d In a new TV ad, Actor Ed O\u2019Neill was a little snappier but more direct: \u201cBe a man: Vote for a woman.\u201d<\/p>\n In the final days of this campaign, gender is everywhere – and nowhere.<\/p>\n Donald Trump wants manhood front and centre of this race. Kamala Harris barely acknowledges she is a woman running for office. In a New York Times poll, Trump leads with male voters by 14%. Harris leads women by 12%.<\/p>\n Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls – they may well decide this election.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n![](\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/bbcx\/grey-placeholder.png\")
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